There is a saying that goes something along the lines of ‘You must love yourself first before you can love someone else.' Similarly, I personally believe that you must be comfortable and happy in your own company before you can truly be yourself in the company of others. There is a massive difference between being lonely and being alone. Loneliness is a horrible feeling. However, you don't have to actually be alone to feel that way. Many times, I've felt lonely when surrounded by a big group of people. (16)In contrast, being alone can actually be a blessing, particularly, when you've actively chosen it. In my experience, being bored and alone is dangerous and can easily lead to the feeling of loneliness. (17)The trick is to be active. Get outside, stretch your legs, do something cultural, buy yourself something tasty to eat or something pretty to wear. You don't have to take anyone else into consideration and can do whatever you please. (18)Spending time alone also allows you to more efficiently take care of problems. And then, when it's time to be social and meet up with your friends, you will be fully there, because you won't have too much other stuff floating around in your mind. Having been alone for a bit, you will also appreciate your friends' company more and chances are your time spent together will be more worthwhile.
预览三道题各选项,出现最多的词是it,听录音时需要判断出it指代的是什么。由16题选项中的 feeling和state等词可以推断,it应该指代某种较抽象的概念。 由17、18题选项中的friends、others、 people等词可以推测,短文内容可能涉及与人交往或与人相处等方面。
16. What does the speaker say about being alone?
详解B)。短文中指出,独处实际上是一件好事,尤其是当你主动选择独处的时候。因此答案为B)。
17. What does the speaker say how to reduce one's feeling of loneliness?
详解A)。讲话者指出,减少孤独感关键是要活跃起来。出去走走,伸展一下你的腿,参加一些文化活动,给自己买一些美味的食物或漂亮的衣服。你不必考虑其他任何人,你可以做任何你喜欢的事 情。因此答案为A)。
18. What is an advantage of spending one's time alone?
详解D)。短文最后提到,独处能让人更有效地处理问题。因此答案为D)。